I can’t figure out how to accept friend requests on this thing

Ning is a pretty neat idea… on paper.

It’s a site where you can “roll your own” social networking site targeted at any weird or random idea you can come up. There’s enough random stuff out there, and this is the only proof I need.

In the age of there being so many of those already, it seems like putting the creation of a network site into anyone’s hands seems like it’s ripe for over-saturation and misuse unuse.

As I’ve been tooling around with Kenny Miller’s Interlinky network on Ning, I’ve started to think to myself… “what’s the point of having 83475345 redundant web relationships?”

Living in New York, it’s easy to find social industry events most nights of the week, there are tons of social groups that exist offline, besides all of the ones you can find on meetup.com. But what do we actually do with all of this networking? When we get together face to face to do stuff drink, we sometimes end up making friends who we talk about work with. Sometimes we make friends who we don’t have to talk about work with (but can). And even sometimes a business contact is made and/or a business relationship is formed. Most of the time, it’s just social silliness, high-school style, minus the big grass field and the paranoia about the cops coming at any moment.

Some social services do make sense cents

LinkedIn is an example of one of those few sites out there that does actually serve a purpose. I have use it to reconnect with ex-coworkers from 10 years ago, and other people have used it to get in touch with me about hiring me or NaterKane (the business) for interactive work. Since LinkedIn is all about business, work, your professional reputation and trust… folks don’t tend to add others as contacts who they don’t know, or haven’t already worked with.

Many of the other big sites however, have little if no quality control.

I actually wish that facebook kept their business model around targeting college kids. I know the world would be different, however I wouldn’t have to deal with people throwing virtual sheep at me for no reason (thanks to the assholes who write useless and what I consider abusive software over at Slide.com) or the unsolicited Vampire/Zombie/Seamonsterboogieman invites reminiscent of those Underworld movies.